Dating several women
I was discovering which conversations worked better than others and was able to avoid bumps in the conversation all together.
The confusion of first-dates was disappearing altogether. I hadn’t even thought that having fun could be a part of online dating but as I grew more comfortable, I had more fun.
This freedom allowed me to finally be honest with myself about what I was looking for.
When the stress lessened, I stopped paying attention to myself and started paying attention to my date.
Better Definition As I went on more and more dates in a short time period, I realized that what I really wanted in a woman and what I had been willing to accept were very different.